Some of you already know from a comment I added subsequently to last week's Covid-19 Journal update that my 98-year-old father fell and broke his hip last Tuesday. He had surgery on the hip late Wednesday afternoon, and he is now recovering in a Houston hospital. He will probably move to a physical therapy facility tomorrow, where he will spend the next two weeks trying to regain as much of the limited mobility he had before the fall as possible. At that point, we will have to determine the best way to get him the level of care that he will need for the foreseeable future.
What makes all of this especially tough is that I'm unable to visit potential care facilities to help me judge for myself the quality of the facilities and the people who work there. No nursing homes and assisted living facilities in the state (perhaps the entire country?) are allowing visitors, including family, to come inside. They are even restricting residents to their own rooms at this point. I'm finding that virtual tours, while helpful, don't give me the comfort level I need to make such a life-changing decision - and that my stress level rises at about the same pace my comfort level falls. To say that this has been a horrible week would be an understatement
Virus Stats from Johns Hopkins:
In the last week,
Worldwide cases increased from 2,440,876 to 2,995,456,
United States cases from 766,212 to 968,203, and
Texas cases went from 19,512 with 504 deaths to 24,968 with 651 deaths.
Outside:
For the most part, we have been having some really nice spring weather even though it did reach 91 degrees at least once this week. Unfortunately, tornados came through the area last week and there was some major damage in a small rural community about 50 miles northeast of us. I think there were at least three deaths involved plus the usual mass destruction that accompanies this kind of storm. And then Saturday night, a nice little hail storm came out of nowhere and pelted the house so hard that I was worried about the windows on the north side of the house breaking. Interesting weather-week to say the least.
Reading/Watching/Listening to:
The review copy that I was happiest to snag this week is one called I, John Kennedy Toole by Kent Carroll and Jodee Blanco. Most of you know Toole's story, including his tragic death and how hard and long his mother worked to get his novel posthumously published. A Confederacy of Dunces, of course, went on to win the Pulitzer Prize after it was finally published - thanks largely to author Walker Percy and publisher Kent Carroll. This novel is a fictional recreation of Toole's life and it will be published on May 5.
I was surprised that three of the books I had on hold at the library decided to come in 4-6 months early! Just what I didn't need to have happen all at once, so I've accepted two of them and postponed the other. I'm wondering if the long wait time caused a bunch of people to drop off the list out of frustration. I have another 15 on hold, and I sure hope they don't all suddenly start coming in at the same time like this batch did.
As you can see, the two I checked out are very different from each other. Blood is Allison Moorer's memoir about the traumatic murder-suicide in which she and her sister, Shelby Lynn, lost their mother at the hand of their father. I don't know much about My Sister the Serial Killer other that it's been highly praised in just about every literary publication I read. At the very least, one look at the cover makes me pretty sure that it's going to be an entertaining read.
The other highlight to my viewing week was a livestream event from the historic Carnton plantation house in Franklin, Tennessee. During the American Civil War, the house was used as a field hospital that treated at least 300 Confederate soldiers during and after the battle. Before it was all over, the bodies of six Confederate generals were placed side-by-side on the back porch of the house. Civil War battlefields are wonderfully preserved in numerous states, but Carnton and its graveyard are extraordinary. I know that not everyone has a Facebook account, but if you do, and if you would like to watch the one-hour tour, click on this link.
Listening To:
In the Kitchen:
Nothing much new in the way of grocery and supply shopping, I'm afraid. The local stores don't seem to have made all that much progress in re-filling all the holes on their shelves, so it's still pretty much a matter of luck when it comes to finding exactly what you're looking for. CVS pharmacy is doing a really good job with free delivery of prescription medicines. So far, our prescriptions have all arrived in one day at no extra cost to what we've already been paying for the same meds.
The Outside World:
Bolivar, Just East of Galveston Island on 4-26-20 |
I don't know about you guys, but I'm tired - and not just tired of being confined so close to home for the last six weeks. I'm physically tired, and I fear that's the result of living with the increased stress levels we have all been experiencing whether we consciously realize it or not. Stress and a disruption of my exercise routine are really doing a number on me.
So, another week in the books. Hang in there, guys. Stay safe.
I'm so sorry about your dad! I worry about my mom falling all the time. Hopefully you can find a good situation for him. Talk about adding to your stress! I'm tired of living with all this uncertainty and anxiety, too. It's so hard. I wish we could go back to the way it was last year. Hang in there! I'll keep your family in my prayers. And hey, I read My Sister the Serial Killer, and it is a pretty fun read. Crazy, but fun. :)
ReplyDeleteThanks so much, Lark, for the kind words and prayers. He finally left the hospital last night and is getting settled into the rehab routine this morning.
DeleteGlad to hear that "My Sister the Serial Killer" is fun. Something happened in the process of it being delivered to me, and I was bumped back down to number 8 on the list. First time that's ever happened.
I'm really not surprised that you're tired, Sam. What you're doing through with your dad would be mentally exhausting enough without Covid19 to contend with too. I really feel for you and am really glad that he is in recovery now. You take care.
ReplyDeleteYes, a certain element will still go out to the beaches regardless of any virus that's on the loose. Police here had to fine a load of people that were out surfing the other day. Coastguard picked them up apparently.
Texas is more or less opening back up on Friday with a few exceptions like public gyms, hairdressers, and one or two other businesses. Restaurants are supposed to limit customers to 25% of capacity and keep them separated, but there are not enough "cops" in the world to make sure everyone (anyone?) is actually in compliance, so I expect an uptick in positive cases two or three weeks from now. This could be a bad mistake.
DeleteI feel bad about your dad and your dilemma in finding him a safe environment during these COVID times. I've had a few trying days in the last 6 weeks of home confinement - more of less. Hoping the week and decisions you face will work out well.
ReplyDeleteThank you, Diane. He moved on to the second phase of treatment this morning, but that means the clock is ticking on me finding him a long term place to stay.
DeleteI think we've all had our down days during this mess. I know one of my days is off to a bad start when I feel disappointed by waking up and facing it. That's only happened two or three times, but I was right about how the day was going to day. It's the old "chicken and egg" riddle, I suppose.
Sam, I know it's tough trying to care for your Dad with all the roadblocks caused by the pandemic. It's good that you have your books, records,and movies to help keep you sane at this stressful time!
ReplyDeleteYou're right about that, Bill. I can't imagine what it must be like for nonreaders right now. You can only watch so much television before your mind goes numb. Books don't affect me that way, thankfully.
DeleteOh no! I'm so sorry to hear about your dad. That must be so tough. I know several people who have loved ones in the hospital and aren't able to visit them. One friend was allowed to wave to his mother, who just had a stroke, through a window, but that's it. It's so hard on the patients and their loved ones.
ReplyDeleteNothing much has changed here as far as restrictions go. The stores are mostly stocked back up, except for tp, paper towels, hand sanitizer, etc. Mostly we can get what we need either through the local stores or online. I'm down to my last couple packs of Costco tp, though, so I'll have to restock soon-ish.
It's burning up here in Arizona, too. The high is supposed to be 101 today. Ugh. At least it's a dry heat :)
Hang in there, Sam!
It's a real struggle under these conditions, Susan, because I can't put eyeballs on potential new facilities, see him to judge for myself how he's really doing, or talk face-to-face with anyone. Despite all of that, I think we are getting closer to some decisions that have to be made within the next 10 days.
DeleteRestrictions here are still set to lighten up drastically on Friday. We'll see what happens.
Thanks for the good thoughts.
I've just gotten caught up. As I wrote on your last week's post, I don't see why the nursing homes couldn't test you at the door and then let you in with a mask. Maybe things will be opening up soon. I don't think you came back to the misheard lyrics post - the guy is Peter Kay!!! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7my5baoCVv8 Hilarious. How we laughed at this new-to-us comedian. I tend to favor the Brits. Do you watch any Michael McIntyre?
ReplyDeleteNan, I spoke with them today at his current place and they say that they will let two people in to go to his apartment to pack things up when the time comes. I have to give them 30-days move-out notice, and that means another $3000 will have to be paid on the empty apartment. That's a little steep for a storage facility, but what can we do? They're not willing to cut us any slack even though he's been in that building for just over 10 years.
DeleteThanks for the name of the comedian. i've seen a couple of clips of his and laughed through both of them. Makes me wonder how many songs out there that I've done exactly the same thing to and still don't know it. I don't know McIntyre...I'll have to look him up. Thanks.