Friday, March 13, 2026

Dear Life - Alice Munro

 

Dear Life, published in 2012, was Alice Munro’s last book. She won the Nobel Prize the following year, becoming the first and only Canadian for having done so. At the time, she was called a “master of the contemporary short story,” and I very much agree with that assessment of her talents.

Dear Life contains fourteen short stories, the final four of which Munro tells us are based upon her own life:

“The final four works in this book are not quite stories. They form a separate unit, one that is autobiographical in feeling, though not, sometimes, entirely so in fact. I believe they are the first and last - and the closest - things I have to say about my own life.” (Page 233)

Most of the stories involve small town women whose ordinary lives are forever changed by a chance meeting or occurrence they can never stop thinking about, sometimes even after they are the only one left who remembers what really happened.

In “Train,” my favorite of the stories, for example, a young World War II soldier returning to rural Canada, jumps off the train one town before arriving back in his hometown. He begins walking down the track in the direction he’s come from, and stumbles upon a rundown farm in need of numerous repairs. The woman who lives there alone asks for help, and the man ends up living there for years, never going home. But that’s not even the strangest thing about how their relationship evolves.

In another story, “Dolly,” the pre-World War II girlfriend of a woman’s husband coincidentally shows up at her front door one morning years later selling cosmetics door to door. Lives are changed in ways unforeseen just a few hours earlier. 

Over and over again lives are changed in an instant.

These are stories where sheer chance changes everything for the small town characters involved. Some are led into life-changing experiences by people wandering through their lives on a whim; some are powerfully impacted by the single decision they did or did not make; some wish they had escaped small town Canada when they had the chance; others wish they had never left. The stories are about real people living during and around the World War II years, a time when many were seeking ways to change - or put back together - their lives. It is a time when nothing seems impossible - so chances are taken.

Surprisingly, the least affective stories for me are the autobiographical ones, probably because I could not forget they are somewhere between memoir and short story. As a reader, I found myself wondering over and over where the truth stopped and the fiction began. That is probably not something that will bother all, or even most readers, but it kept me from losing myself in the stories enough to really enjoy them. 

Alice Munro is an excellent short story writer, and I look forward to reading much more of her work. Luckily, she wrote fourteen collections of short stories and one novel between 1968 and 2012. Lots to look forward to.  

6 comments:

  1. Has Alice Munro written any memoirs? I am reading a memoir by Abigail Thomas which is wonderful, written when she was 80 and just read a great memoir by poet laureate Robert Hall, Essays after 80. Very inspiring.

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    1. I don’t think Munro has written a memoir. In fact, she gives me the impression in this one that she has seldom shared any personal details with her readers other than in the customary kind of author interview. I wish she had. I’ve read several memoirs and essay collections written by folks in their 80s and 90s and I always find them insipiring - and I’m always impressed with the sheer energy they have.

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  2. I have to admit I rarely read short story collections, but I might try hers.

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    1. I really like collections like this one a lot. I say it over and over again, but I swear I think it’s more difficult to write a short story collection than it is to write a novel. At the very least, it’s a whole different talent involved in the creation.

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  3. Good review. Train does sound like a good one. I read this collection with my book club back in 2013. I don't remember it too much now ... so I'm glad I wrote a review for it here: https://www.thecuecard.com/?s=dear+life .... It's a bit too bad the change people are having about Munro's books after her daughter's revelations a couple years ago ... I'm sure you saw those. I tried to read her collection Runaway but then the story was just about that very thing .... so I had to put it down.

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  4. Your review mentions that dark tone of these stories and how so many of the female characters are mistreated and abused. I got the same feeling from reading them. I’m curious to see how I will react to others of her earlier work knowing what we now know about her. I had heard this but not nearly to the detail that I just read a few minutes ago. Now, knowing the details, I may just find myself scrutinizing the stories to a degree that makes them unreadable. How very sad for her daughter - and unforgivable.

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